Stress...and other things

My ever so wonderful husband, who today is referred to as "the man who must talk before I go to sleep" or tmwmtbigts....or that man.....has this habit, just about every night as I'm falling asleep, he insists are talking. Now I know most women would love to have their spouse talk to them, but these are not normal conversations. Every time he does this, I end up staying up for hours as my head tries to grasp at what he's getting at and he is snoring away. That man has a new way to give me an ulcer at least once a week. In most recent weeks it's been him telling me they are getting ready to do layoffs at work, but he's not one of them. His back or knee is really hurting, but not enough for him to ease up at Tae Kwon Do, or last night, my favorite so far, the fact he can't remember a girl from HS that he gave his picture to. I have actually asked that man to write me a list of things that are wrong with him, I've been waiting 3 years and still no list. Now, I do admit, that man has a horrible memory....to an extent. He is only 32, but he has the memory of someone in their 50's let say, it drives me crazy. Now if it was just simple little things he forgot he wouldn't be all that upset, but it's a great deal of his life that he has issues remembering, and yet he does remember to almost great detail other women he was with before me. This is where him driving me crazy comes in. He actually apologizes, and says he doesn't want to make me upset, but it bothers him that he can't remember some things. I just wish he would shut up and not say anything. I have had enough of a rough year with out him adding more to my plate, but that is for another time, I just really needed to vent.